Why is it that people only want to hear the positive and ignore even the remote possibility of complications from having Weight Loss Surgery?? They will be the first one to jump on you if your being too negative sounding…Usually I hear “Why do you have to sound so negative when you write your blogs”?? Well to be honest I’m pissed that this is going on and that I could have taken a different route, but I was more focused on looking skinny then actually thinking what it might do to me 6 years later…I was being selfish and not thinking how it would affect my family or friends…Now I pay the price everyday…I never once took into consideration that my husband who is young and vital would want a sick wife to deal with all the time…He is a wonderful man, but being a care giver is hard and sometimes I wouldn’t blame him if he took the easy way out and left…What kind of life am I giving him??

Obviously we were born with a full stomach and not meant to whack it in half…Hell, some of the great portraits of our time have fuller figure ladies and it was very acceptable…If you looked skinny back then you obviously came from a poor family and what man would want that… And when you really stop and think about that then it makes so much sense…I wouldn’t hold it against that man for wanting to marry a girl if she didn’t at least have a herd of cattle to bring into this marriage…LOL..

I wonder what the early 18th century men and woman would think of us now and all our vanity and obsession with size??